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Hello, welcome back to Vision Group’s youtube channel. I am Tony Nguyen, an expert in the field of training to conquer women and develop yourself. Today we will return to his postcard series.

In the series of videos on how to talk to create emotions and attract women, today we will go to the next video. That is How to never get stuck on the topic because of running out of topics to talk about. And the second is how to always take the initiative in talking to women.

Okay, before returning to the content of the video, I would like to remind you again. This postcard will be most suitable for you if you want to supplement your knowledge. You can listen to it before going to bed or when you have something in the background to work on.

Especially when you encounter problems in life. Or you are about to meet a girl. Maybe this video won’t help you solve your problems immediately.

Or make your meetings better. But it will help your spirit improve. And when your spirit improves like that, you can solve all the problems in your life.

And without further ado, let’s go back to the video. That is, I feel that many of you are having problems communicating and talking to women. I made a video about how to never run out of things to say.

But never running out of things to say is one thing. But whether we can lead that woman to where we want to go is another. So how can we always be proactive, always take the lead when we talk to women?

First, we have to understand that we have to know how to control our conversation. So how? The first thing to always be proactive and lead in a woman’s conversation is to never talk on impulse.

All of you must have a plan for your conversation in advance. You must know where you want to take your woman, where to go, what story to tell. So how to do this?

That is, we must have an initial plan. We must determine what topic we want to talk about with this woman today. What do we want to share.

For example, we want to talk about basic, simple things with them. What will we talk about? Prepare knowledge about TV shows, movies, studies, daily life.

So that we can talk to them and lead their story. Second, what if we want to talk more deeply with them? Then we also have to have certain understanding about them.

Then in part 2 I will talk more. But we have to learn about them, what they have experienced. So with what they have experienced, what will they care about?

What will they want us to talk about? What will they want us to help them solve? And finally, when we achieve our goal, what will we do next?

That is how we will lead our story. Never talk by inspiration. Of course, in a conversation, it will be very difficult for you to always talk according to a predetermined plan.

But you can narrow it down, for example, today we will only talk about light stories. Our woman is not happy today, she is under pressure in life. But asking more about problems that are too deep, too sad.

Not so beautiful memories in life can make their mood very painful. When we talk like that, we feel like it’s losing its strength to the brink of sadness. We can stop and return to fun topics.

We must have a plan in advance, not talk on impulse. Second, we must always understand the person we are talking to. How to understand the person we are talking to?

There are 2 cases that I see I often use. The first is fun stress-relieving conversations with each other. We need to understand what they like, what movies they often watch.

What they often do, what hobbies they have. For example, our woman likes to watch the brother overcome thousands of thorns, or likes to watch the brother say hi. For example, game shows were very hot at the time I recorded this video.

Then we should watch. I really think it’s good, not too bad and not a waste of time. We should watch to gain knowledge to talk to them.

What movies do they like to watch, what music do they like to listen to, what do they like to do in their free time. We can learn a little about those things to create a common ground when talking to them. Don’t talk vaguely.

Not knowing anything about the person you are talking to will make it difficult to talk. The second case is deeper things. What are deeper things like?

The first is what they have experienced in life. The second is what they are doing in life. And the third is what their future will be like.

What do you want?

We can find out these things just through their profile. Maybe through a few of their mutual friends that we know. Or maybe we find a way to ask them to exploit.

Then these things will go deeper. And after a while of talking, we will understand more about them. That is the second part: Understand the person you are talking to.

Third, we must always ask questions intelligently. Asking questions is showing our curiosity about the person opposite. And about the woman sitting and talking to us.

But you need to ask smart questions. What are smart questions? Smart should not be a yes/no question.

I’m sure everyone has told you this. Do you like swimming? Do you like badminton?

Do you like jogging? Do you like learning English? No.

When a word no is said, we will immediately be kidney. And the conversation is closed. Now people say no and then what to do.

And one of the problems that many people do not tell you is that when people say no, it is very possible that they are not interested in that topic. So many of you when you see them say no, you go in another direction. Look again, do not like it.

I find that subject also interesting. The problem is not whether it is interesting or not, but that people are not interested. People do not play that subject, they do not like it.

That is why people do not play. People do not like it, they do not do it. At that moment, you have lost the so-called initiative in the conversation.

Therefore, let’s ask questions that expand and develop the topic. And ask smart questions. Another part is, do not ask too personal questions about inappropriate things.

As I said above, I still have to use it. For example, now asking about the past, talking to a woman when talking about her family makes her sad, she avoids listening, she doesn’t want to talk about it. We just have to understand that when we encounter such a problem, we have to depend on the context.

The context is sitting in a beer house, two people drinking a few beers and talking intimately with each other. We will ask the woman to share, oh, your father, you know, your father often drinks alcohol, often beats your mother. No, this is just an example.

Your father, I would like to tell your family, ask for a minute, she will scold you, then it will be easy. But imagine you have just met that person, on the first date, the space is not too private, it does not go into the mood of telling a story. You asked too deeply about her family.

What about your parents, why do I feel sad when mentioning your parents? It is possible that the woman will immediately consider us as extremely rude. And they will never want to see us again.

So, ask smart questions. First, ask broad questions that can be answered broadly. Second, ask questions that are appropriate for the situation.

For example, in a shallow, new relationship, the appropriate question is “Do you like Anh Trai Say Hi or Anh Trai Vuon Ngan Trong Gai?” Then that question will be more appropriate than asking about your family. But when we have gone deep into the relationship, we have private spaces together.

At this time, we ask questions about your family, what is your dream, what do you like most, what do you feel makes you special compared to the world around you. Your job, I see many difficulties, why do you have to pursue it so determinedly instead of choosing something else. You are so beautiful, then you have to ask the question intelligently.

Next, that is to compliment the woman subtly. Compliment subtly means not to compliment for the sake of complimenting. You are so beautiful, what is beautiful?

Beautiful is something very general that will be difficult to touch this woman. Compliment the things that people are really interested in, that people really find beautiful. I like your new shoes, these shoes match the previous shoes.

I like the way you smile, I like your lipstick color, you just changed your hairstyle, right, I think this one suits you better. Those are questions when a compliment is sincere, when you find it really beautiful, then compliment them. If you feel interested, then compliment them.

Don’t compliment just to compliment. That will make the woman feel extremely… how is it, like it’s fake. Imagine a person who always tries to find something to compliment when meeting you.

That is a way of communication that I am very allergic to when there is such a type of communication. When meeting someone, we always have to find something to compliment. That way of complimenting makes me feel very fake, I don’t like it.

The same goes for women, when you meet them, you are very beautiful, you are very cute, you are very pretty. Do you understand anything about me? Do you know what I have invested in the most in this appearance of mine?

What do you want the most? What do you want people to compliment you on the most? And sometimes it’s not even about your appearance.

I like your diligence, I like your effort

, I like your determination. If I were you, I’m not sure I would be determined and work hard. I’ve met someone before, she tried very hard in life.

But in return, other people only complimented her beauty. And she felt very hurt because she felt like she was paying attention to me because I was beautiful, not because I was good. So this is also something worth noting that you guys should refer to.

And ok, finally, lastly, that’s a technique that I’ve also shared, but I want to remind you again that you should know how to share your own experiences. We’ve talked a lot about the girl just now. For me, an ok date is a date where the woman talks a lot and we sit and listen.

We summarize, we understand people like that. But sometimes we have to share with ourselves the stories we have experienced, our dreams and ambitions. Of course, those are deep things, there may be more shallow things.

I also like to watch my brother overcome thousands of thorns, Truong The Van sings so well but why did he quit singing, no longer sing. I hope he will come back to sing in the future. Then the two of them sat down to talk about Tien Luat, about rapper Tien Dat.

For example, it is also a very good story, the two of them can connect and have fun together for a session. Those are my stories, my deeper stories. Yes, I have also experienced very deep love affairs.

But it came to that, so I feel very sad. I hope that in the future we will meet better. For example, those are ways to share my stories.

But remember the principles when sharing your personal stories. There are three principles that I think you still have to consider. The first is not to share anything with others.

Understand that each person has their own circumstances. And if there are female friends, for example, that you don’t have much experience with, and you share too much about your work, the things you’ve experienced, they won’t understand. Or even sometimes you’re a student, for example, if you talk too much about work, they won’t understand.

The story you share about 1-2 years from now, you will share it, you will feel very excited when you go to work, but you don’t like it now. The second principle is not to share stories that are nothing special.

This morning I went to work, I bought bread, I went to the company to buy a cup of coffee, sat and worked until noon, afternoon, evening, when I came back, there was nothing to share. The story should have something special. Even though I went to buy bread this morning, I encountered a very sad story.

Or I encountered a very special story, or I was arrested by the police. It must have something special to attract the listener’s interest. And finally, those are stories that do not bring connection.

Tell stories that after that story we can connect with the woman. But stories that are too unrelated to the topic of both, that stray too far from the topic that both of us are paying attention to are not good. Remember these 3 principles.

And ok, the video ends here. This is a video about how to talk to women that we always lead the conversation. Hopefully you have learned some things in this video.

And ok, hello. I am Tony Nguyen, a training expert in the field of self-development and conquering women. If you have any problems that I can help you with, please contact me.

I will help you. Thank you.